Thursday 21 December 2023

Eve of Solstice

It's the eve of Winter Solstice,  when we burn a candle to symbolically let go of all the things in 2023 that have been negative for us... tomorrow stone circles all over the UK and beyond will be visited by those who want to connect to the elements and Nature and acknowledge the Winter Solstice.  Here's my Winter wreath - if I was going to a stone circle, I would wear it like a crown :)



I have a list of promises to myself for 2024:

Don't let anyone steal my vibrancy
Wear something sparkly every day
Don't step on insects
Do something in nature every day - talk to a plant, walk in the woods, visit my allotment
Don't think of work as a chore, it's a great opportunity to socialise!
Travel as much as possible 
Don't think about being old, think how great it is to be alive!
Slow down and savour the moment more often
Remember to have gratitude
Always look for the magic in things

It's that time of year when I am observing nature, looking for any signs of green, new shoots, footprints of little animals, birdsong, the allotment is a great place for that - I saw six beautiful roe deer glide across my plot early one morning recently, magical!  I have also spotted the odd starling - a rarer sight in the UK these days, heard song thrush and robin, found silvery snail trails on my kitchen windows and seen some fabulous early morning red sunrises.  It's these small things that make me happy.

What inspires you during the cold bleak Winter months?  are you a windowsill gardener with an amarylis about to flower or do you have tubs crammed with Spring bulbs outside your doors?  I planted 200 small Spring flower bulbs in my lawn this year,  ambitious as we have really heavy clay soil (and weeds)  - I hope they come up as crocus and miniature narcicus will be such a lovely sight.

I go swimming twice a week, our pool is staying open either side of Christmas - this Tuesday it was almost empty and I had a massive lane (third of the pool) all to myself.  The showers were super hot and I brought some little hotel bottles of toiletries saved from recent travels and made it a mini spa day!

I'm off on an adventure today - will tell about it soon.















14 comments:

  1. I love your wreath! And beautiful promises. Nature will always inspire me.

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    1. Me too, Nature is full of inspiration and little rewards of beauty.

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    1. Thank you B, I am adding to it, it's a work in progress :)

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  3. An inspiring post. Thankyou, and Blessings Be xx

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  4. What a beautiful wreath and I think it would be wonderful crown too!
    Your promises for 2024 are very inspiring, I should take a leaf out of your book. Haven't gotten around to planting Spring bulbs yet. I'm afraid I'm mainly a good weather gardener :-) xxx

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    1. Hi PP, if you've left it late, there will be some in garden centres already potted and ready to bloom, nothing wrong with the easy option if challenged for time :)

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  5. Your wreath is beautiful Betty & would make a wonderful crown. What a wonderful tradition ... to burn a candle for the winter solstice & let go of negative things that happened ... I think I might need a rather large candle Betty.
    I love your list of promises to yourself & think I shall sit & write one for myself.
    I have just come inside from mowing some lawns here - it is only 9.30 in the morning & already stinking hot. Summer is not my season & I have been thinking alot about it lately & I feel that a winter Christmas like you have, is more appropriate for Christmas. I can think of nothing better than lighting the fire & being cosy with the family over Christmas. We will possibly eat out on our deck but honestly - it is hot out there too. So now that I've had my complain, I shall go make an iced tea!! Enjoy your adventure Betty. x0x

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    1. I guess if we are looking at the Christian traditional Christmas, Jesus was born in a hot place and your climate is more authentic! I often wonder if people in hot countries have roast turkey and all the trimmings in sweltering heat :) Yes, I needed a large candle to burn off my negativity, you're not alone .

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  6. Morning Betty! I'm just about to do my workout before tuning into the English Heritage's Winter Solstice live feed from Stonehenge at 7am - the dark days are over!
    What a beautiful wreath! I made mine yesterday but haven't hung it up yet, it was so windy I thought it might end up a few streets away.
    I absolutely love your promises to yourself and your positivity, I could have written them myself. I'm envious of you being able to swim over the Xmas holiday, ours is council run and closes today till the New Year.
    Happy Solstice! xxx

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  7. Well I would have to say that Buckspiss is my greatest inspiration during the winter months ;) Oh Betty, your wreath paining is beautiful!!!! xXx

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    1. thanks Lulu, I love a bit of Buckspiss myself although we have a much ruder name for it!

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Let There Be Light!

 The Aurora lights over Surrey, UK on Friday night, pictures taken by my son Tom.